She thinks…

• I am ungrateful and selfish.
• That, “it must be so nice to have so much autonomy.” 
• That I just do whatever I want and expect her to accomodate my life.
• I don’t ever think about her and the kids.
• I coddle Rowan instead of “disciplining her”
• Life is so easy for me.
• She has to

I think…

• All I care about in the world are Rowan and Henrik.
• My role is to provide for my family and be a loving father and husband.
• It’s hard to be a loving husband to someone who thinks you don’t support them.
• My only true complaint and obstacle from enjoying life is that she complains and gets angry.
• I don’t like the way she yells at Rowan.
• She’s plays the victim.
• I accomodate her as best I can around my 40-hour work week and my business travel.
• She has watched more Netflix TV in the last month than I’ve watched in a year.
• She has more time and opportunities to maintain friendships than I do.
• She can make plans during the day to see friends whenever she wants.
• I always make sure she can go to a meeting and see her friends whenever she wants.
• When I get back from travelling, I make sure I take days off work to be with the kids and her, stay home in the evenings to be with her.
• When I get back from travelling, she is bitter and resentful at me. I have to try hard to be kind and loving despite this.
• Our lives together are really great.
• She does not enjoy our lives together.
• She complains almost everyday about something I do.
• She finds working such a chore.
• Work is a part of life and nothing to get worked up about.
• She doesn’t like that I have to travel for work.
• She doesn’t like if I leave before 7:30AM or if ‘m home later than 4:30PM (only an 8.5 hour work day). Even though I work less hours per week than everyone else in my department.
• She thinks c